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How to Have an Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony


Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony

This beautiful, intimate vow renewal ceremony for Abigail and Taylor was so lovely to be part of. They have been together for 15 years and were ready to re-commemorate their love with their beautiful teenage kids and closest loved ones to see. Whether you've been married for a few years or a few decades, a vow renewal is an amazing way to reaffirm your commitment and relive all of those beautiful years you've shared together.


If you're reading this, you're probably thinking about renewing your vows and celebrating your love in a fresh, meaningful way! In this blog post, I'm going to share 5 tips to plan an unforgettable vow renewal ceremony.



What is a Vow Renewal Ceremony

A vow renewal ceremony is a way for married couples to reaffirm their promises to each other on their wedding day. There's no legal paperwork, no formal requirements —just you, your partner, and a beautiful opportunity to celebrate your relationship! It can be as simple as an intimate gathering with close family at The Capital Hotel in Little Rock, Arkansas like Abigail and Taylor did or it can be as grand as traveling to Europe with your lover! The best part is, you get to decide!


A vow renewal ceremony is more than just words—it's a celebration of the life, love, and future you and your partner share. Whether you want to renew your vows in front of family, or as an intimate moment just for you and your partner, it’s an incredibly meaningful way to honor your relationship.


Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony

Why Should You Have an Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony?

There are SO many reasons why couples choose to renew their vows. After you get married, you and your partner will continue growing together and navigating life's ups and downs. An intimate vow renewal ceremony is the perfect opportunity to reflect and honor everything you've been through and make new promises to each other for the years to come.


As an elopement and wedding photographer, I often hear from couples who had a bigger, more traditional wedding but secretly wished for a smaller, more intimate wedding in a breathtaking location. If that sounds like you, a vow renewal is the perfect excuse to that small and intimate ceremony you've always dreamed of!



Tips for Planning Your Vow Renewal Ceremony

Choose a Location with Meaning

Location is everything when it comes to setting the vibe for your vow renewal. Since this celebration is about intimacy and connection, think about choosing a place that is significant for you as a couple. The location should reflect your love story, whether it’s the beach where you had your first date, a favorite hiking spot, or even your backyard.


Pro tip: For those who want an adventure, consider renewing your vows while traveling or at a destination you've always dreamed of. (Hint: Switzerland, Tuscany, or a secluded beach getaway!)


Keep it Intimate

Unlike a traditional wedding, a vow renewal is often more personal. You can choose to keep the guest list small—just immediate family and close friends—or make it a private affair with just the two of you. The goal is to focus on the meaning behind the ceremony without the distractions of a big crowd.


This is your day to reconnect, celebrate, and create a moment that reflects your love in the most authentic way possible.


Write New Heartfelt Vows

One of the most meaningful parts of a vow renewal is the opportunity to write new vows. Instead of recycling your original wedding vows, reflect on your journey together since the wedding day. What have you learned about each other? What challenges have you overcome together?


Start by jotting down little moments that come to mind when you think of your partner. Inside jokes, daily routines, the way they look at you—use these details to craft vows that speak directly to your shared history and future. Check out my best tips for writing your vows!


Set the Perfect Mood

A vow renewal is not just about the words you say; it’s also about creating a mood. To make the ceremony feel more intimate, think about adding personal touches like soft string lights, candles, or flowers that set the tone.


One of my favorite things to do is create a playlist that you can play throughout the ceremony and during your private moments together. Music that has been a part of your relationship adds another layer of emotion to the experience. Imagine dancing to the song that played at your wedding or the tune that reminds you of a special trip you took together. Romantic, right?!


Capture the Moment

Even though vow renewals tend to be smaller, don’t skip on having a photographer (hi, that’s me!) or videographer capture the moment. The beauty of renewing your vows is that it’s a day filled with raw, genuine emotions. Whether it’s the way you look at each other during the vows or that laugh you share when you remember a funny moment from your past, those moments are worth capturing.


I can help you create a relaxed atmosphere during your vow renewal session, so you can just be in the moment, while I handle the details of capturing your love story.


Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony

Your Intimate Vow Renewal Ceremony is Important to Me!

As your wedding photographer, it is my mission to capture all your most precious moments to get you in your feels for years to come! Let's capture those large and small moments that may feel as though they happen in the blink of an eye, and make them last forever. If we sound like the perfect fit, fill out my contact form, and let's start planning your dream day together!


Be sure to follow me on Instagram and stay tuned for what I’m working on next @kyndalcapps.co! Stop by my Pinterest to get all the wedding and elopement inspiration you need!



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